We have all been talked about. Let's be honest, no one likes to hear negative things that have been said.  So what do we do?

Know That Haters Gonna Hate

Some people may not like you because of small things. You can try to please others, but some will never like you for whatever reason. So what should be done? Stop worrying about it! You were not brought on this Earth to satisfy everyone. If that person doesn't like you, or  want to be your friend, then that is one less person you have to give a gift for on Christmas or their Birthday. Move on, there is a reason that person is not in your life.

Stop Crying

Sticks and stones may break your bones, but words DO hurt sometimes. I honestly still can remember some of the harsh words that were said about me. I'm pretty sure most of us can remember the first person that said something negative behind our backs. It is tough forgetting those words, so what to do? Control yourself. Much like you can control the words that come out of your mouth, you can control your thoughts. I remember one preacher said it like this: "You empower what you give attention to". So instead of staying on the negative, think of all the positive things in your life or that people have said about you.


You Are Not Alone

Always remember that you are not the only person in the world that is being teased or talked about. Talk to an adult that you trust or a friend. Trust me, others will know how you feel. Confiding in others can ease the pain.

You Are Unique:

We  all have our own talent and uniqueness. If you have never heard anyone ever tell you this, now you will : YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! We are all our own unique flower, none of us are designed to look alike. Smile! When everyone is talking bad about you, know that their opinion doesn't matter. It is tough, I can understand, but it will get BETTER.